Confidence, the immediate supplement to feeling good.

Its been busy weeks. I'm not joking.

Good and bad, all went through.

Whatever.:)


Confidence, what is it exactly?


In dictionary, it cited as "belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance"


Belief in oneself. Belief in self worth.
I'm not talking about those that are just up for show.
Nor those that are just plain cockyness, those without considerations of one's limit.
I meant those that are unspoken, those that can been seen without body language, with our actions and decision. Those that makes you ending with rational decisions. Those that as you carry that confidence, people can sense you when you are coming.
Here's a fact. If you don have confidence in yourself, you will not have a good self-esteem
And if you don have a good self esteem, you will never find happiness.
You understand that?
"We are born princes"
Have that basic respect for yourself and give yourself that opportunity to feel good about yourself. No matter what kind of background you are, you deserve to love yourself and no one has control over it unless you allow them to. Trust me. Your days are well off without those self depleting mindset. So stop dwelling in self pity and enjoy the good things about yourself.

How did i even deprive to this whole principle about confidence?
Here's my story.
My previous esteem crusher was the breakup.
I lost total confidence and i felt extremely diffcult to move on.
I kept asking myself why. Was so stuck at it at that time that i felt, i needed to do something. That completely isn't me. I'm not created into these world to get stuck in this shit.
I begin reading, understanding and observing.
I created this blog just for this. To pen down all that i learnt and observe and grow from it.
And after all these months i realise the past was all so drama.
I REALLY MEAN DRAMA.
I can do so much better. And i'm doing so much better now. And best of all i'm much stronger.
No longer like the past, and i make absolute sure it stays this way.

Here's one thing interesting i gain from my research.
In my attempt to learn about myself, i learnt about others as well.
I begin to be able to understand and realise why people do and say things the way they did, why some people are more respectable than others.
So much so then i can see the level of the person's thinking just by the things they speak about.
Its interesting isn't it?
All thanks to that break up. Seriously i wouldn't have learnt and grow so much.
And unlike the past, i smile everyday, i sleep smiling. I recover from negative emotions much quickly.
I live a life that is more adventurous than the past. I do things that others thought was just way too much for a young man to do.
Life isn't about the amount of breath you take. Its about moments that takes your breaths away.:)